We live in a world today where the rate of depression is skyrocketing especially among the young. I myself had an episode over a year ago, which led me on a quest to find a suiting remedy and so I resorted to reading, something I usually enjoy doing which often takes my mind away from any situation. It is no surprise why some depressed individuals end up commiting suicide, If you don’t believe in Jesus Christ and his gospel, then suicide would seem like a suitable alternative, but I’m here to tell or remind you that it isn’t the way out. If not for my personal and intentional relationship with God, I might as well would have resolved to suicide.
However thank God for the holy spirits guidance which led me to this book “God’s answers to life’s difficult questions” by Pastor Rick Warren, which has help me greatly. So I thought it wise to share some excerpts from the book and I believe it will help you get through not necessarily depression but whatever it is you are going through in private.
Playing the mental Game
Elijah got depressed because he played four mental games that we all play when we get depressed.
Focus on the facts, not on your feelings
βElijah was afraid and ran for his life. When he came to Beersheba in Judah, he left his servant there, while he himself went a dayβs journey into the wilderness. He came to a broom bush, sat down under it and prayed that he might die. βI have had enough, Lord,β he said. βTake my life; I am no better than my ancestors.β- ββ1 Kingsβ¬ β19:3-4β¬ βNIVβ¬β¬
- His first mistake, he focused on his feelings rather than the facts.
- As most psychologists believe, one key to health is to get your feelings out in the open. Venting your feelings out is not the complete remedy, because feelings are unreliable.
βThen you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.β- ββJohnβ¬ β8:32β¬ βNIVβ¬β¬
- The Bible did not tell us to get in touch with our feelings but to get in touch with the truth, because itβs the truth that sets us free.
Donβt compare yourself with othersβ
while he himself went a dayβs journey into the wilderness. He came to a broom bush, sat down under it and prayed that he might die. βI have had enough, Lord,β he said. βTake my life; I am no better than my ancestors.β-ββ1 Kingsβ¬ β19:4β¬ βNIVβ¬β¬
- When we start comparing oursleves with others we get depressed.
βWe do not dare to classify or compare ourselves with some who commend themselves. When they measure themselves by themselves and compare themselves with themselves, they are not wise.βββ- 2 Corinthiansβ¬ β10:12β¬ βNIVβ¬β¬
- Itβs both unwise and harmful.
- Thereβs only one person that can be and that is you and thatβs you.
- You have to be honest with yourself and be who you are. Thatβs all God wants; thatβs all he expects.
Donβt take false blames
βHe replied, βI have been very zealous for the Lord God Almighty. The Israelites have rejected your covenant, torn down your altars, and put your prophets to death with the sword. I am the only one left, and now they are trying to kill me too.β- 1 Kingsβ¬ β19:10β¬ βNIVβ¬β¬
- Elijah blamed himself for failing to change the nation, and he took it personally.
- When we assume responsibility that God did not intend for us to have, it is too heavy a burden.
- People react in many different ways, you canβt assume responsibility for their responses.
- God has given each of us free will.
Don’t exaggerate the negative
verse 10- I am the only one left they want to kill me…..
- But the fact is almost nobody was against him, only one person violently opposed him and her threat wasnβt a real one.
- But instead of taking a thought about it, he listened to his feelings.
- He did not evaluate the threat instead he just ran away.
- He exaggeated the problems and he sank lower than normal.
APPLYING GODS REMEDY
Take care of your physical needsβ
Then he lay down under the bush and fell asleep. All at once an angel touched him and said, βGet up and eat.β He looked around, and there by his head was some bread baked over hot coals, and a jar of water. He ate and drank and then lay down again. The angel of the Lord came back a second time and touched him and said, βGet up and eat, for the journey is too much for you.β- ββ1 Kingsβ¬ β19:5-7β¬ βNIVβ¬
- Godβs first remedy for him was food, drink and relaxation.
- When you are physically and mentally drained, you are prone to depression.
- If you are depressed, first take care of your health needs.
Give your frustration to God
βThere he went into a cave and spent the night. And the word of the Lord came to him: βWhat are you doing here, Elijah?β He replied, βI have been very zealous for the Lord God Almighty. The Israelites have rejected your covenant, torn down your altars, and put your prophets to death with the sword. I am the only one left, and now they are trying to kill me too.β- ββ1 Kingsβ¬ β19:9-10β¬ βNIVβ¬β¬
- He poured out all his inner feelings to God.
- It often helps to share your inner feelings with a Christian friend. Itβs a catharsis
Get A Fresh Awareness Of God
βAfter the earthquake came a fire, but the Lord was not in the fire. And after the fire came a gentle whisper.βββ- 1 Kingsβ¬ β19:12β¬ βNIVβ¬β¬
- Even today God still speaks to us in stillness of voice.
- Take you bible and read it, get alone with God, let God love and speak to you.
- Thereβs no antidepressant than communication and fellowship with God.
Gain A New Direction For Your Life
βThe Lord said to him, βGo back the way you came, and go to the Desert of Damascus. When you get there, anoint Hazael king over Aram.βββ- 1 Kingsβ¬ β19:15β¬ βNIVβ¬β¬
- The quickest way to defeat depression is to quit sitting around in self-pity.
- Get your eyes off yourself and start looking at the needs of other people.
- Let God give you a new purpose and direction.
You Can Change
- People who live for themselves are guaranteed to get depressed.
- You need something greater that draws you out of yourself, and that is a vital relationship with Christ.
~Excerpt From: “God’s Answers to Life’s Difficult Questions” by Rick Warren~
thank you so much, it’s touched me to go on with God’s will.
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Glory to God! I’m glad it did!
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